In Congruence

It is an interesting day. Well, every one of these days is interesting in its own way as we rapidly move toward full understanding, acceptance, and appreciation of who we are, and today adds its radiance to the flow of experiences.

Reflecting on the encounters from the past few days, I intend to gain clarity on what works for me and what does not. I see that the space of dominance and control no longer benefits my relationship with self. Not a single choice of DO-ing over BE-ing brings me a sense of accomplishment. Unless I come from the space of being nice to myself, I lose my passion and find no joy in what I do.

I watch people step into emotional or physical harm just because they are trying to succeed by pushing themselves. When you want to succeed, you have to begin by aligning with your self and acknowledging your feelings. A sense of accomplishment is a prerequisite to success. You have to feel accomplished, then you will succeed.

These thoughts help me to set up the space for tonight's performance. The choreography is called Fever, and it is no wonder that I've been running fever for the last two days. Knowing how important the choice of words is, I am creating my platform for today with Freedom, Ease, and Accomplishment. The main word is Ease, I feel as I search for a pointer to that state of being.

I clear my mind and allow it to come to my consciousness. Thus Congruency presents itself. Knowing too well what it means in geometry, I decide to search a couple of dictionaries since exploring familiar concepts from different angles often brings insightful information. So, I read:

Congruency - The quality of agreeing; being suitable and appropriate*

Congruence is the state achieved by coming together, the state of agreement. The Latin congruere means to come together or agree. As an abstract term, congruence means similarity between objects. Congruence, as opposed to equivalence or approximation, is a relation which implies a kind of equivalence, though not complete equivalence.**

In psychology and NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming), congruence could be defined as rapport within oneself, or internal and external consistency, perceived by others as sincerity or certainty.**

This is it. I have to seek no more, for it becomes clear that the ease is a result of alignment within myself, and allowing it is a big accomplishment. So, I am free to dance in joy tonight. I am free to enjoy who I am.


No one is going to tell you what serves you best. You have to be willing to explore who you are and allow your well-being to come to you with ease. Then, the joy of being comes to you, naturally.

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* Wiktionary
**Wikipedia